Kimberly Shipp

He shows up for every game, knows the bedtime routine by heart, and considers these children his family. The children consider him theirs. But under the law, he doesn’t exist as a parent at all. This Father’s Day, here is what every stepfather and father figure needs to know.

Father’s Day is a celebration of presence. But the fathers who’ve truly done right by their families aren’t just the ones who showed up every day. They’re the ones who made sure their family would be protected whether they were there or not. If you haven’t answered the one question that matters most, this is where to start.

You’ve thought about who would raise your children if something happened to you. But thinking about it and actually naming someone in a legal document are two very different things. If your family doesn’t have an answer in writing, and something unexpected happens to you, a judge who has never met you or your children will make that decision. Here’s what you need to know, and what you can do about it today.

When a spouse dies, most surviving partners expect grief. They do not expect a tax bill. The “widow penalty” is a real and largely unrecognized consequence of losing a spouse that can cost a surviving partner thousands of dollars more every year in taxes and Medicare premiums, at the worst possible moment in their life. Here is what it is, who it affects, and what you can do now, while there is still time to plan.

You signed the Power of Attorney (POA). You thought your family was protected. But when a parent or spouse loses capacity, that document you trusted may get rejected at the very bank where you need it most, and your family may not have time to fight it. As your Personal Family Lawyer®, this is exactly the kind of gap I make it my job to close before you ever need to find out the hard way.

Tony Hsieh sold Zappos to Amazon for $1.2 billion and built one of the most admired companies in America. When he died at 46 without a will or a trust, his family was left to sort out an estate worth hundreds of millions of dollars. Publicly, slowly, and painfully. What happened next is a lesson everyone who has something to protect should read.

I know discussing topics like death, incapacity, and other potentially frightening life events, with someone like me,  an estate planning lawyer, may feel intimidating or even morbid. Take a  deep breath and relax… it doesn’t have to and shouldn’t be that way. Hiring a lawyer to help you make wise decisions for life and death

Your tax return is the most complete picture of your financial life you’ll get all year. But most people close the folder without asking one critical question: if something happened to you tomorrow, are the people you love actually protected? Here’s how to answer it before the window closes.

When you die without a solid plan, you don’t just leave behind grief. You leave behind years of court battles, creditor claims, and paperwork that can drain everything you worked to build, and hand it to a young adult who has no idea where to start. This is exactly what happened to Anne Heche’s family.

A Michigan court case shows what happens when a parent dies and no one thought to plan for it. The child had a chronic medical condition, a contentious custody history, and relatives scrambling to get legal authority just to manage her care. The court battle that followed could have gone very differently without years of documented evidence. Here’s what every parent needs to know before something like this happens to their family.